Trans dating across Oz
Trans Dating Australia: Hot Dates on Your Terms
Made for trans women, crossdressers and the people who fancy them. Flirt hard, date discreetly and call the shots.
Skip the Explaining, Get to the Flirting
Want trans dating in Australia without the awkward bits? Crossdressing Australia is a trans dating site as much as a crossdresser one, made for trans women, crossdressers and their admirers, and it's been online since 2010. More than 2,800 Australians have joined so far, and more than 800 chose CD/TRANS at sign-up.
Everyone picks man, woman, couple or CD/TRANS when they join, and your profile does the rest of the explaining, which leaves the chat clear for the fun part. Still call yourself TV? Fine by us.
Be Wanted for Exactly Who You Are
Out and proud, early days or living stealth: put as much on your profile as you like and not a word more. Tick Trans, Full Time or Stealth among your interests, and they count when the site picks your match suggestions. Then post the sexy selfies you're proudest of: the new hair, the little black dress, the winged liner you finally nailed.
Your story is yours to tell, when you feel like telling it. A username stands in for your name, your nearest town stands in for your address, and explicit photos stay blurred until someone chooses to look.
After something hot and casual? Say so. Want a regular date who takes you somewhere nice for dinner? Say that. The ones worth meeting are the ones who read it.
Admirers, Here's How to Get a Yes
Attracted to trans women? Say it loud and proud on your profile. What gets you a reply is treating her as the woman she is: someone with a job, a sense of humour and a favourite pub, not a category on a search page.
Read her profile and mention something in it. Use the name and pronouns she uses. Her body, her surgery and her past are not first-message material, ever. And never treat her like a secret you're embarrassed by. If anyone wants to keep things discreet, that's her call as much as yours. Get the basics right and the flirting gets fun, fast.
Our page on how to meet crossdressers covers openers and manners, and crossdressing and trans terms explained will help you get the words right.
Say Who You Are, Then Say Hello
Crossdressing and being trans are not the same thing. A crossdresser might spend the week in a suit and live for Saturday night en femme. A trans woman is a woman, full stop. This site is made for both, and neither owes anybody an apology.
Your profile says which you are, so there's no awkward reveal halfway through a drink. Still working out where you sit? No rush and no labels. Say that instead and let the flirting take care of itself. Dating over 50? Our mature crossdressers page has the age breakdown.
Transgender Dating in Sydney, Melbourne and Beyond
Melbourne has more members than any other city, well over 300 of them. Sydney has close to 300, Brisbane more than 140, and Adelaide and Perth more than 100 each. Pick your city, browse every location or search crossdressers near me:
Flirt Hard, Stay Safe
Look for the verified badge: it means that member passed a free ID check. A moderator can also confirm someone on a live video call, no documents needed. Every member carries a reputation score built from how they behave and the feedback they get, and you can block anyone instantly and report them without leaving the site.
Every photo, video and message is screened as it's uploaded, by AI and by people, and if someone starts pushing you onto WhatsApp or some other app, the site warns you, because that's a classic scam move. Humans staff support around the clock, by chat or message. See every protection on our safety page.
Ready to meet? Make the first one somewhere public, like a bar, a café or a long lunch, and tell a mate where you'll be. If they don't match their photos, you owe them nothing: pay for your drink and leave. Our guide to your first date en femme has the rest.
Ask Us Anything About Trans Dating
Is Crossdressing Australia for trans women too?
Absolutely. The site is built for trans women every bit as much as for crossdressers, and both sign up under CD/TRANS. You don't have to crossdress to join.
Who can I meet?
Members join as men, women, couples or CD/TRANS, and profiles let everyone say what they're after. More than 800 of our 2,800-plus Australian members went with CD/TRANS.
Do I have to say I'm trans on my profile?
Joining as CD/TRANS covers that. Beyond it, share as much or as little as you like, from the whole story to a single line.
Can I find trans dating in Sydney, Melbourne or Perth?
Yes. Melbourne has more members than any other city and Sydney is next, followed by Brisbane, Adelaide and Perth, and New South Wales has more members than any other state. Each of those cities has its own page.
Can I keep it discreet?
Easily. Your real name and email are never shown, your username is your choice, and your profile gives away nothing closer than your nearest town.